How can you say the feeling a person has for another is true love?

I have been experiencing true love. I know that I can explain this topic to you. I'll focus on the boy part because I'm a boy. I know how a boy feels when it is true love. First, we can know that it is true love when we know that he exerts effort on you. Like when he waits for you when it's time to go home. Then he will go with you until you reached your house. He doesn't care even though he goes home late just to see you safe before he goes home.

Second is when he is not afraid to meet your parents. I'll confess this to you. Even I was also afraid to meet my lover's parents but because I love her, I faced them. This is a very important part of a relationship. It will give her parents an impression that you are really serious about their daughter. He should enjoy the time when he was with your parents to build up good relationship with them.

Third one is when he fights for you and never leaves you when you have problems. If he really loves you then whatever happens he will fight for you and he will do anything that will be best for you. He will also face your problems and help you find a way to overcome your problem.

Last but not least, he loves you for who you are. He needs you not want you. He accepts you for who you are. He is ready to make sacrifices just for you. He gives more importance to you than the things he gave you. Even though he makes foolish things he will always be ready to face the consequences and he will always be there for you!

Why sometimes our blessings seem to be a disaster to us?

For me all of us were blessed. God love and care for us all. We are all equal to his eyes. But why do we blame Him for his blessings that sometimes became a disaster to us? We always think that it is his entire fault for all the misfortunes that happened to us.

We are the one who makes our blessings. He is the only that gives us the blessings that we need for us to become faithful to him. But sometimes, instead of becoming faithful to Him, we still blame God. He gave us blessings but do we thank him for these blessings? Do we remember him when we became successful in life? Do we dedicate our work for him? I think not all of us. We only remember Him when we encounter misfortunes. We remember him when we only need him.

These are the reasons why His blessing sometimes is a disaster to us. He don't want us to be in the wrong way. He guides us in our life so we could someday be with him when it is already our time. We should be thankful for the problems He gave us because it only means that He love and cares for us so we could be in the right direction. We should be thankful for all that He had done for us!

Why do people derive pleasure from the misfortunes of those who are exceedingly blessed than they are?

People today care more about the material things in life. They want to be rich and power so they can do whatever they want. They only think about their selves not about the others. They want to be at the top of others. Why do you think that many people were like these?

The answer is simple. They were always jealous of the things that the others have. They don’t want to be left behind by the blessed one. They always crave for more and got envy of those people who are higher than them. That’s why when these blessed one had misfortunes in their life, these envy people enjoys the bad things that happened to these blessed people. It’s the time for them to take over and get what they want.

If they can’t get what they want then no one will also get it. That’s how they think. They pull down the other people around them and when they succeed they find pleasure on their sufferings. Instead of helping them, they still lure them to more sufferings. These are the reasons why people derive pleasure from the misfortunes of those who are exceedingly blessed.